When I meet new people, I always try and find a way of getting through the backdoor to their psyche - Astrology being my usual tool. Caregivers who mask their own emotions can also reinforce the idea that you should do the same . Their sadness is one of hopelessness and they're prone to giving into it. Now I have blocked her on everything & have zero plans to ever speak to this intensely superficial flake as i realize now beyond the woo hoo party thats all she was really good for & coming to this understanding broke my heart. According to the CDC, "more than two in five adults experienced symptoms of anxiety or a depressive disorder in their lifetime." When in discussion about this libra others who think they know her well will defend her and say she is gracious and unselfish. I was married to a Virgo woman, one who heavily did the virgo thing which is pessimistically driven to chastise and be judgmental to the end. He will yell that all he wants is some peace. My sister is so jealous of other people's happiness, she does whatever she can to ruin theirs. They are popular works as well and everything that motivates them is to please themselves under the guise of providing the other. Its a constant battle. Bye bitch see ya never. Well long story longer I could not invited my best friend and family to my own wedding I'm hurt didn't phase her. I am worried that the very same relationship that i have with my parents is what I will have with my wife and kids. Men with a Libra Sun or Moon are masters of the silent treatment and passive aggression. People should understand that not every Libran is the same. Munay, I am a Libra and I have to disagree on every aspects lol for me personally I do good until Im messed over as soon as you mess over me its over with. We were close like family and talked a lot on the phone and only during work hours(my choice after we started dating in 2000). Boy was I so wrong and regretted holding on for so long. Then he would get mad insanely mad when ignored. She also cries at the drop of a hat. Libra men are very indecisive. theyre usually really calm but i noticed how they cant tolerate stupidity if no ones watching theyll lash out probably useing really hurtful remarks. Hard to get anything out of someone that hides behind a fake smile. I have been in 3 relationships in my life and the the 3 of them are Libra. Libras are also the kings and queens of compromise, and they like making peace between others. They lie and pretend they are fine. Sometimes, they feel emotionless and are unable to understand how and what they should express to their closest ones. How Can I Help a Depressed Capricorn Man? If possible, then you should provide her with the material and time to work on something that makes her happy. I want to build you up, only to make you look like a fool and encourage you to make the wrong decisions for my amusement. I am a only child also raised by a Libra mother. My best advice for anybody is know thyself it is OK to not care or like people and not be friendly. I am able to bind and twist words in my favour, utilising their double meanings. Aries does not like anyone to know their weaknesses, so if they feel sad, it often comes across as anger or frustration. Mmmmm Librans, Ive known a few, the first one a friend of a friend, a woman, I overheard bitching me out about my extra pounds (lol) in a pub one night, she was sitting in the next booth to me blissfully unaware that I could hear everything she was saying about me, me sagittarius with a big ego (and ass) apparently and a sharp little virgo moon wasted no time in letting her have my arrows, it shut her up! What ever happened in her head destroyed her. See additional information. After the beginning of the year she started being more flirtatious. Libras can be extremely easy going until their sense of justice is upset. They will bottle up their feelings and keep it to themselves instead of being advocates of communication in relationships. How? I normally got along with everyone. It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. I had a long friendship/relationship with a Libra man ever since I was 15. But charming when she wants info from us. He said she has to always be the center of attention, will continue to create major drama until she gets what she wants. Did i learn a lot! Eventually I got tired of playing cat and mouse with him and his uncertainty that I tried to call it quits. I am afraid of settling down with someone. Are Libras logical or emotional? All those who commented and appear to be a Libra and can't handle criticism, you just proved the whole author's point. I had a friend (we are both libras) she was a thieth she stole a couple of pens and a notebook in school and when i asked her why she did that she told me infrond of my face that ive stolen from her too (witch i did not) she said such big lies for her grades that i cant stand it any more . HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. I am a lion. Its not that I love the Libra guy. I was 9 y/o and he was 16. (2) Really? What Libras actually need is just to find a stable ground they can hold onto when times are unsteady, what often becomes their SO or someone else who is very close. I am a libra my self and the main thing about being a libra is emotions libras value there emotions so much it is everything to them.when libras are sad it is so hard to get there trust.when a fight happens with there friends they will get so emotional that they become a monster they never want to even think about being but they dont realise. Always. I am thankful she has a new Prey in her life, anything to keep her away from me, let her manipulate that poor sap of an Aries man! Obviously, each sign deals with sadness differently, which might be why you feel a deeper connection between you and certain people more than with others; when you get into your lowest lows, these people just get what you're feeling, even without words. In love, these people are loyal, as long as you are useful and fit the perfect image they have of how a life with a perfect partner should be. The little trick Libra's use is saying "I heard that" when in fact they did NOT hear anything, they are the ones FALSELY promoting some "theory" (in their head} as if it is an "eye-witness" account. Depends on the day of the month you were born. Vindictive and nosy. I know first hand I have a love:hate for Libra people. I just decided to keep my personal life private from her. If I screw up I own up. Question: I was born on December 20th, but my family members say that my zodiac sign is Libra. They always try to be objective and rational, but they tend to be emotional and sensitive. I had left him. My life was fairly quiet and normal until Mr. Libra came into my life. With their vast stores of charm, intelligence, frankness, persuasion, and seamless connectivity, they are well-equipped to do so. There's three types of Libra Suns: Libras who have Mercury in Virgo, Libras who have Mercury in Scorpio, and Libras who have Mercury in Libra. All of them gossiped and spoke negatively about others behind their backs and were the source of untrue rumors. I eventually had to reject him, "block" him and go "No Contact" with Mr. Libra 2. she physically, verbally, emotionally, and spiritually abused me as far back as i can remember. I see a lot of my dark traits right there. Aquarius can sometimes hide their emotions to save themselves from a multitude of heartbreak and sadness, but when depression hits, those around them can really see a difference in their behavior. Libras Are Trusting & Trustworthy Because they're all about trust. Loyalty well basically they have none. we only give excuses on purpose even we can cry or beg to make you belive %100. That only helps to make it clear that those people are not compatible and I don't want them in my life. I'm not. I would also like to remind everyone that this isn't a "meltdown" I am having a reasonable opinion. Transmuting the energy behind the thoughts and words of your ranting into energies of Love and Light is as simple as asking the Universe to do it. Great lays. Theres so many sides to a Libra, such exciting creatures. That would be my control issue. There are Librans whom I both like and despise for this quality, depending on what they've got to say. In order to understand these triggers - today we present - why the signs get sad! If you notice that she has isolated herself, then you should take the time to teach yourself about what happens when a Libra woman is sad. Libras create a conflict between two acquaintances who not normally have any conflict by Libra telling each person the other "said" something negative about them, when in fact, it never happened. This just says a lot. They are manipulators, competitive sickeningly beneath the surface. Libra shies away from conflict everywhereexcept within the family. It doesn't matter how badly that ex may have hurt them Libras are incredibly understanding individuals who can forgive and forget just about anything. :( Bad ex maybe? They are the true incarnations of the narcissists! Commenting is something I don't do often, because it might throw me off the balance that I am so precious about haha, but once in blue moon I take risks and considering the topic I feel like it's worth a go. Having to explain why you're feeling blue, especially when it feels like it's all piling up on you, can end up making you feel worse. Cutting corners and working smarter not harder is their catchphrase. Have. )are NOT COMPATIBLE? Dated a Libra over a year. So heres my opinion on us (Librans.). We talked on the work phone but never in person 1997 till 2002 and just to show her the engagement ring and never since. When he learned I didn't own a car, he would "insist" on driving home from class. This was a great and successful political move and also true to his sign. 1 ultimatum don't talk to my best friend anymore. Knowing of her as a libra, I'd expect her to make negotiations and try to change things to her liking, but I'm usually the one having to do that. Asked us who we thought the dot was, we shrugged, he then told us it was the very libra I am talking about. I, pity myself to the point where i start crying. (hard to believe I know, aloof shits like us actually occasionally listen) It doesn't just dissappear. I ended up feeling hurt and confused because I saw the signs that said he didnt want to be with me but kept pursuing anyways. in the meantime she was trying to chat him up. I will never justify our dark side. I am leaving him in God's hands because I know one day he will pay for all these sick acts he's committed. This will help her reach a state of mind that is more stable and tranquil. Libra men are sensitive. Emotional balance is so important to a Libra. She took the kids and tried to move into a shelter and she didn't even know why. In turn, this will give her a chance to build a new life on a strong foundation. I have zero desires to be a negative libra but honestly don't how to turn it around or even if I can. Generally, I think Libras are more fair, and if they are ever dishonest, they at least have the decency to feel guilty about it ;), Libra's are hands down..the best sign of the entire Zodiac..unless you make us go dark-side or unless you piss us off or cross us. I feel I am always there, I mean daily, to boost her up, just to not have her there when I need her or to even respond to a text in a decent amount of time. There are many bad parents and abusers, even family murderers with different zodiac signs. But damn I've definitely never seen an article talking so badly about us Librans! I, remember all the bad stuff anyone has ever done to me BUT i have a patience of a God. If you piss off or let a Libran down, do not both trying to: because they know what you did and your ability to do it again. None of this rings true for me and you should not say "even the best" this emplies EVERY SINGLE Libra thinks more of themselves than they think of you. Wants two men at one time, expecting both to remain while she decides, but they better not find another woman while the libra is deciding. Most people are made of many layers, and can exhibit any set of traits associated with a various signs at any given time. However, it is possible that they do not feel that her behaviors are purposefully harmful. now i am questioning my whole life and the somewhat form of a self image i may have had at one point even more now lol but its okay bc God knows who i truly am and now others will know. Do Libras move on quickly? nothing was her fault. Aries tends to go all out when it comes to feeling sad. This has happened to me more than twice in my life at very different times and situations(in a relationship, almost boyfriend, friend, boss) with men and women libras. Some people agreeing with this in its whole has proven they know and strongly dislike a certain libra in their life, and have no reason to disagree because of the obvious pain THAT negative libra has caused. Sadness is an important emotion and part of the human spectrum. I spent 2 hours on that phone listening to her sob story and when I put the phone down, she remained in my head, like a mosquito biting my brain, irritating, annoying and. poisonous. In my head and finding out how my mind games are going in my head. me, me, me..lie. While this may seem like a negative trait, it can actually be quie . They could give 2 shits for their Aries older sister. glil ou. im sure its not just the libra in her, she is a narcissist. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. He's friendly in that way which confuses me now a lot. And I took my chances and went to Japan, and for my surprise he had prepared a space for me to sleep with improvised curtains, giving me total privacy. Modern men do not hide their emotions. Hard to believe? She may make the decision that she needs to make changes in regard to her social relationships. Exalted in saturn bring a virgo sagittarius or leo even aquarius to venus,I'm ashamed a libra represents venus,it's not love what you bring it's dirt and lies. We have been doing that since 1989 to 2004 we did hookup a few times before 1996 none since then no longer felt right. o que associo a cada signo aries: personalidade touro: inflexvel gmeos: ingenuidade cncer: terapia (precisam mt) leo: ignorncia virgem: sociopatia libra: inconvenincia escorpio: intimidade sagitrio: hide sadness behind beautiful smile aquario: metidos peixes: sonsos You might think to yourself if only someone could understand you, then they wouldn't have to ask what was wrong (don't we all want this?!). i can not even begin to describe the hell she put me through. Libras have a reputation for being able to hide their emotions well. I am spiritual and often pray for guidance, when I start to second guess decisions or blame myself endlessly for my mistakes. I'm going to be very honest, I was pretty ruthless with my ex wife, especially in the latter part of our marriage. Often, they can feel hopeless, but they do try their best to stay happy and composed, if only to keep those around them happy. Her friends, family members, or partner may begin to feel that she chooses to undermine their relationships. They will REFUSE to listen to what you have to say if you are very outspoken person. Finally, to our regret, years later we gave up and let the kids go since she was ruining our and their lives in the process of her severe selfishness. They will compensate for with food (especially fats, alcohol, and sweets) and urge others to overindulge along with them. That Libra/Leo thing was just ugly - self important, secretly power crazed, a seducer, and let's not forget, she's a Cusp of Virgo Libra. BUT dont forget the good as long as you stay on their good side theyll spoil you be your shoulder to cry on and alot more. My partner and her don't have a friendship. We were staying in a very beautiful hotel and this was Christmas Eve. ( baring in mind her parents live 5 minutes from her home and she's close to them, she alledges to have 2 childhood friends who live near her too.. she didn't turn to them.) This may cause her to decide that she should abstain from making major decisions. It will benefit her if you take the time to support her by giving her the means to explore her interests. This is also called sosiopathic. Their status is important to them before everything, even before their family, they are treacherous and chasing sickly, dressing up as those who are fans so they do not have their own character, for them there is nothing to admire a man who slept with many girls, not considered to be a man, not cool - This is the person they imitate every day and every day until they meet someone greater than him in this field is very shallow, and thus inherently boring dressing up as other people, are subject in any depth. i was a good kid. You probably deserved it etc. Until after we became roommates did I see time & time again her inability to ever defend me. We libras are very difficult people for families to get along with. You may want to look in the mirror first. I'll counter her with a weapon she despises kicking and screaming back into her own pit of hell yes, I'll kill her with my own personal happiness! K so i love every other sign. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. she was so nice to outsiders but treated my family and dad like dirt. seems the guys dont stay very long wonder why . Candice NY from NYC on December 02, 2018: Libras are great as long as you keep it superficial. I will deny there is a problem all the while working frantically to justify or make it work, whatever it is. Libras are very good at hiding their emotions. Not one good libra i came along,what's wrong with this sign ,i mean seriously? When Libras are healthy they are funloving, charming and very intelligent. I wont bite ur head off lol. I will admit that. They isolate themselves and start to detach, even though they still attempt to appear happy. But their dark side is an endless abyss of self-serving, manipulative, victim-based behavior. Things seem to be falling apart around me. As a matter of fact, I won't let myself around these libras because they do charm well and I now see charmers as nothing but a sticky web, don't get too close. I'm just dealing with a toxic one. The males appear to be charming, romantic and very friendly. When this occurs, she may choose to turn her attention elsewhere. Dark-side Librans ignore or hush up reports of pain or unpleasantness and fool themselves that things they don't acknowledge didn't happen. Replytovengefulauthor on January 09, 2017: As someone that has done a lot of astrology reading I can admit I know some of these traits can be very true of a libra. So one must learn to defend themselves from harmful emotions. When these emotions take over, be aware of a Virgo that becomes blunt and oppositional. I don't care about anything when I'm happily in love. Why make an indecisive person a leader? My dark side is usually regret which I've been told is the cancer of life. Saying Yes When They Mean No Libras hate arguing more than any other sign, so they often try to be agreeable in an attempt to avoid any possible conflict with their partner. It is true she got older and started having difficulties, I think she basically wore herself out. and finally: I ADMIT I'm not perfection BUT try hurt my friends? So good luck living. Like she has some sort of ledger in her head. Only then can they have heightened compulsions, turning into an unrecognizable and impulsive being. I have a horrible relationship with my parents and my brother. 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